How to Improve Feedback Practices in the Workplace

When I first asked my team for feedback, the room went SILENT. Why? Because speaking the truth felt too risky. This isn’t just my story, it’s the reality in countless workplaces. Here’s the truth: feedback is a minefield. 🔴 Done wrong? It breeds tension and mistrust. 🟢 Done right? It fixes problems—it transforms teams. Here’s how to get it right: 1/ Timing Is Everything ↳ Feedback during chaos? Disaster. Wait for a calm moment. ↳ A private 1-on-1 works best. 💡 Pro Tip: Start with a positive comment—it sets the tone. 2/ Lead With Solutions ↳ Complaints without fixes = noise. Solutions = action. ↳ Try this: “We could avoid confusion with more clarity upfront. What do you think?” 💡 Pro Tip: Frame solutions as support for the team’s success, not criticism. 3/ Be Clear, Not Cryptic ↳ Instead of “Communication could be better,” say: ↳ “Inconsistent updates slow me down. Weekly check-ins might help.” 💡 Pro Tip: Use examples to back it up—clarity builds trust. 4/ Use “I” Instead of “You” ↳ Feedback isn’t a blame game. Stick to “I” statements to share your perspective. ↳ Example: “I feel I don’t have enough autonomy to contribute fully.” 💡 Pro Tip: Highlight how solving the issue benefits the whole team. 5/ Know When to Let It Go ↳ Pick your battles. Save your energy for what really matters. ↳ Does this impact the team or my work? If not, let it go. 💡 Pro Tip: Focus feedback on what aligns with team goals. 6/ End With a Vision ↳ Great feedback doesn’t just fix problems—it builds something better. ↳ Paint the big picture: “Here’s how this change could help the team hit the next level.” 💡 Pro Tip: Vision-driven feedback inspires action. The takeaway? Feedback isn’t about proving you’re right, it’s about progress. Master these steps, and you’ll not only solve problems, but you’ll also earn respect and trust. What’s your biggest feedback fail (or win)? Share it below. 👇 ♻️ Repost to help your network get better! ➕ And follow Shulin Lee for more.

Last week, a mentee came to me after her annual review. Her feedback was good — specific enough to sting a little. She walked out with every intention of acting on it. I asked her one question: "What's different on your calendar this week?" She paused. Nothing was different. That's where feedback dies — not in the reading of it, but in the week after, when life resumes and the document closes. Understanding feedback and acting on it are two completely different skills. Most people only practice one. Here's what I told her to do instead: 𝟭/ 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝗯𝗲𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗼𝗿 "Be more strategic" tells you nothing. This does: take the project you're leading and present how it accelerates a priority your organization cares about — before your next leadership meeting. Specific. Timely. Actionable. For every piece of feedback, ask: what does this look like in practice? 𝟮/ 𝗔𝗱𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗼𝗮𝗹𝘀 If it doesn't make it into your goals, it's not going to happen. Don't create a separate "development item" that lives outside your work — embed it into the goal itself or into how you'll achieve it. If the feedback is "delegate more and develop your team," don't just note it. Update your existing goal to: 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘗𝘳𝘰𝘫𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘟 𝘣𝘺 𝘘3, 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘮 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘬𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴. Same goal. The feedback is now inside it. 𝟯/ 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿 Your calendar is your priorities made visible. If the change you need to make doesn't appear there, it won't happen. If the feedback is "scale your impact by partnering across the organization," don't wait for opportunities to show up. Schedule 1:1s this week with leaders in adjacent teams to learn their priorities. What's on your calendar next Monday tells you more about your intentions than anything you wrote in your development plan. 𝟰/ 𝗧𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 Share what you're working on with a peer, a mentor, or your manager. Not for accountability theater — because saying it out loud makes it real. And it invites the micro-feedback you'll need along the way. 𝟱/ 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗮 𝟵𝟬-𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸-𝗶𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 Not "am I trying harder?" — what's actually different in what you do? If the answer is nothing, the feedback is already expiring. The annual review is a gift. Most people open it, admire it, and put it back in the box. If nothing changes in what you do, the outcome is likely to be the same. What’s one change you’ve actually put on your calendar this year? PS: If you know someone in the middle of their review cycle — send this their way. --- Follow me, tap the (🔔) Omar Halabieh for weekly Leadership and Career posts

Your brain can't process praise and criticism simultaneously. That's why traditional feedback methods are harmful. But there's ONE discovery that creates growth, not resistance: Direct. Then Connect. Neuroscience shows our brains process praise and criticism through completely different neural pathways. That's why the "feedback sandwich" fails so spectacularly. When we buffer criticism with praise... The brain cannot process these mixed signals effectively. People see through it anyway. Studies show 74% of professionals detect sandwich feedback within seconds. Having directly managed 300+ people and coached over 100 founders on leadership and culture, I’ve seen the real impact of feedback. Here’s what works... Two simple steps: 1. DIRECT: First, get permission and deliver unfiltered feedback. "May I share some observations about your presentation?" Then state exactly what needs improvement. This activates voluntary participation, and increases receptivity greatly. 2. CONNECT: Then, separately reaffirm their value "Your contributions remain vital to our success." The key? Complete separation between these steps. Direct feedback gives a clean signal about what needs to change. Connection maintains psychological safety. They know their status isn't threatened. Getting permission isn’t a minor detail - it’s crucial. It fosters respect and trust before you give tough feedback. Setting the stage for it to land well. The neuroscience behind this is clear: A Gallup study shows regular feedback mechanisms result in 14.9% increase in employee engagement and a 21% increase in profitability. Companies implementing this see remarkable results: • Cisco saw 54% faster resolution of team conflicts • Adobe reported 30% reduction in employee turnover • Pixar found 22% higher willingness to challenge assumptions • Microsoft under Nadella accelerated deployment cycles by 31% The traditional sandwich approach can feel safer, but it creates distrust. Direct Then Connect can feel scarier, but it builds psychological safety. Humans are wired to prioritize belonging above almost everything. When feedback threatens our status, our brains go into protection mode. When feedback becomes clear and non-threatening, learning accelerates. Implementing this approach requires courage. You have to trust your relationship is strong enough to handle direct feedback. But that's the paradox: By being more direct, you actually build stronger relationships. Try it with your team this week. You might feel uncomfortable at first, but watch what happens to your culture. When feedback becomes clear and non-threatening, learning accelerates. And companies that learn faster win. - If you liked this post? Follow us for more insights on conscious leadership and building companies from the inside out. Proud to coach with Inside-Out Leadership: executive coaching by trained coaches who have founded, funded, scaled, & sold their own companies.

After 15+ years as a Chief People & Culture Officer for Fortune 100 & 500 companies, I’ve seen firsthand that delivering feedback is both an art and a science. I’ve managed teams ranging from 5 to 1,000, and if there’s one thing I know for sure—it’s that great feedback isn’t just about what you say. It’s also about when and how you say it. Mastering this skill takes time and intention, but here are five of my best lessons from years of real-world leadership: Be specific & timely – Don’t wait for annual reviews. Celebrate wins or address issues in real-time. Focus on behavior, not personality – “Your report was late” is more actionable than “You’re unreliable.” Listen more than you speak – Feedback should be a dialogue, not a monologue. Follow up – Show you value the conversation by checking in later. Lead by example – Be open to feedback yourself. It sets the tone for your team. A feedback-rich culture starts at the top. Leaders, how you give (and receive) feedback shapes your entire organization. And the best teams embrace feedback that flows both ways. What’s the most valuable lesson you’ve learned about giving or receiving feedback at work?

Your leadership team just got some brutal survey feedback and now wants to "stop all this surveying nonsense." Sound familiar? Here's the thing: When feedback stings, the instinct is to shut down the channel. But that's like unplugging the smoke detector because you don't like the beeping. The real issue (most often) isn't the feedback—it's that your leaders weren't prepared to handle it constructively. Here's how to fix this without killing your feedback culture: Only ask what you're willing to act on. If there's absolutely no willingness to change regardless of feedback, don't ask about it. For example, if raises are not happening due to budget constraints, don't ask employees if they want them. You're just creating false hope and inevitable disappointment. Create structured feedback channels with guardrails. Set up something like a Lattice Q&A board with clear submission standards: questions must be business-focused, assume positive intent, and be constructive rather than personal attacks. Have pre-written responses for why questions get deleted and a resubmission process. Equip leaders to handle tough, but fair, feedback. Leaders signed up for roles where they'll face heightened emotions and difficult conversations. Help them build emotional regulation skills through in-house or outsourced management training, referrals to executive coaching, and healthcare options that support access to mental health therapy. Be selective about whose opinions you let affect your decisions and emotional state. Pay attention to constructive feedback from people with positive intent showing up day in and day out to do similar or related, important work. And, let it be okay to ignore the opinions of anonymous dissenters who are not engaging in conversations on how to improve the situation or who have little to no context on similar challenges. Don't let one bad survey experience kill your entire feedback infrastructure. I've seen companies go silent for months or years after tough feedback, only to face bigger culture crises later because issues went underground. Here’s a little insider secret: The issues are still there. People just aren’t talking about them with you, the leaders, anymore. Leaders have a right to a harassment-free workplace, but they also choose roles that require engaging with difficult emotions and perspectives. The solution isn't silence—it's better preparation on how to respond when things get tough. __ 👋 I'm Melissa Theiss , 4x Head of People and Business Operations and advisor for bootstrapped and VC-backed SaaS companies. 🗞️ In my newsletter, “The Business of People,” I share tips and tricks that help People leaders think like business leaders.

I've helped teams build stronger communication cultures. (sharing my proven framework today) Building open communication isn't complex. But it requires dedication. Daily actions. Consistent follow-through. Here's my exact process for fostering feedback culture: 1. Start with weekly 30-min team check-ins → No agenda, just open dialogue → Everyone speaks, no exceptions → Celebrate small wins first 2. Implement "feedback Fridays" → 15-min 1:1 sessions → Both positive and constructive feedback → Action items for next week 3. Create anonymous feedback channels → Digital suggestion box → Monthly pulse surveys → Clear response timeline 4. Lead by example (non-negotiable) → Share your own mistakes → Ask for feedback publicly → Show how you implement changes 5. Set clear expectations → Document feedback guidelines → Train on giving/receiving feedback → Regular reminders and updates 6. Follow up consistently → Track feedback implementation → Share progress updates → Celebrate improvements 7. Make it safe (absolutely crucial) → Zero tolerance for retaliation → Protect confidentiality → Reward honest feedback Remember: Culture change takes time. Start small. Build trust. Stay consistent. I've seen teams transform in weeks using these steps. But you must commit fully. Hope this helps you build stronger team communication. (Share if you found value) P.S. Which step resonates most with you? Drop a number below. #team #communication #workplace #employees

As an EY Partner, I gave feedback to thousands. Master the art of feedback - skyrocket your leadership: Bad feedback creates confusion. Good feedback sparks growth. Use the CSS (Clear, Specific, Supportive) framework to make your feedback land without friction. No more awkward silences or sugarcoating disasters: 1. Give positive feedback that actually feels valuable. ❌ Don’t say: “Great job!” ✅ Instead say: “Hey [Name], I really liked how you [specific action]. It made a real impact on [outcome]. Keep doing this—it’s a game-changer.” Why it matters: → Reinforces what actually works 2 Address underperformance without demotivating. ❌ Don’t say: “You need to improve.” ✅ Instead say: “I appreciate your effort on [project]. One area to refine is [specific issue]. A great way to improve would be [solution or resource]. Let’s check in next [timeframe] to see how it’s going.” Why it works: → Pinpoints the issue without personal criticism 3. Redirect someone without crushing their confidence. ❌ Don’t say: “This isn’t what I wanted.” ✅ Instead say: “I see where you were going with [work]. One way to make it even stronger is [specific suggestion]. What do you think about this approach?” Why it works: → Keeps feedback constructive, not critical 4. Push back on an idea (without sounding like a jerk). ❌ Don’t say: “I don’t think this will work.” ✅ Instead say: “I see the thinking behind [idea]. One challenge I foresee is [issue]. Have you considered [alternative approach]? Let’s explore what works best.” Why it works: → Keeps it a discussion, not a shutdown 5. Handle conflict without escalating it. ❌ Don’t say: “You’re wrong.” ✅ Instead say: “I see it differently—here’s why. Can we walk through both perspectives and find common ground?” Why it works: → Creates space for solutions, not arguments 6. Help someone level up their leadership. ❌ Don’t say: “You need to be more of a leader.” ✅ Instead say: “I see a lot of leadership potential in you. One way to step up is by [specific behavior]. I’d love to support you in growing here—what do you think?” Why it works: → Focuses on potential, not deficits 7. Coach someone who is struggling. ❌ Don’t say: “You need to step up.” ✅ Instead say: “I’ve noticed [specific challenge]. What’s getting in the way? Let’s find a way to make this easier for you.” Why it works: → Focuses on support, not blame 8. Give feedback to a peer without sounding like a boss. ❌ Don’t say: “You should have done it this way.” ✅ Instead say: “I had a thought—what if we tried [alternative]? I think it could help with [goal]. What do you think?” Why it works: → Encourages shared ownership of improvement 9. Close feedback on a high note. ❌ Don’t say: “Just fix it.” ✅ Instead say: “I appreciate the work you put in. With these adjustments, I know it’ll be even better. Looking forward to seeing how it evolves!” Why it works: → Ends on a motivating note — ♻️ Repost it to help others grow.

The hardest steps at work... Not to the printer room. Not up the stairs to the office. It's the steps to someone's desk when you need to have that difficult conversation. Want to make those steps easier? Here's what I've learned: 1. Timing is everything ❌ Don't give feedback: - Right before important meetings - When someone is hungry - When emotions are high - In public spaces ✅ Choose moments when: - There's time to talk - Basic needs are met - You're both calm - Privacy is assured 2. The delivery matters Start with: "I'd like to share something, is this a good time?" Then use the magic formula: "When [situation], I noticed [observation], and it made me feel [impact]. Because for me it is very important to [need], Do you think next time we could try this instead... [collaborative request]" 3. Remember ⤵️ - You can't control their reaction - You can only control your delivery (tone of voice and body language matter) - Your feedback might be the awareness they need - Change is their choice, not your responsibility 4. Set the right mindset: - Acknowledge your own imperfection - Be open to their perspective - Listen more than you speak - Focus on growth, not blame 🛑 Most people don't resist feedback. They resist feeling judged. Your role is not to fix them. It's to create a safe space where truth can be spoken and understanding can flourish. 🚧 Because at the end of the day: We're all works in progress, learning and growing together. P.S.: What's your best tip for handling difficult conversations? #Leadership #Communication #PersonalGrowth #WorkplaceCulture #FeedbackCulture

Have you ever sat in a meeting wondering, "Why am I here?" or "Is this the most effective use of our time?" Now, the real question: Have you ever spoken up about it? At SCAN, we’re exploring a new Way of Working called *Courageous Challenge*, which encourages us to speak up—constructively. As a third-generation New Jerseyan, I’ve never needed much encouragement in that department. Speaking my mind comes naturally, but I’ve learned over time that how you speak up matters as much as what you say. When it’s done right, speaking up from a place of care isn’t jarring—it’s /transformative/. Staying silent, biting my tongue, only preserves the status quo. On the other hand, poorly-delivered criticism feels like an excuse to be a jerk. So, how can you drive change without alienating your colleagues? Here’s what’s worked for me: - Tone is everything. Deliver criticism or feedback with steady energy and optimism. You’re working toward a better outcome and your delivery needs to reflect that. - Don’t just raise problems; do your homework! Reference articles, case studies, or examples to show your feedback is grounded. Saying, “I read about a company that started no-meeting Wednesdays…” or “Inbox Bankruptcy has worked wonders for others…” shows you’re advocating for solutions, not just venting. - Use storytelling. Instead of saying, “This isn’t working,” try, “I’ve seen this play out before, and here’s what we changed.” For example, I once shared how my prior engineering team managed projects - it sparked interest rather than defensiveness. That encouraged others to open up with their feedback, and we built a better process with our suggestions combined! - Humor can be a secret weapon. A little lightheartedness can take the sting out of feedback, but it is very dependent on your audience. Test the waters first on this one. If you’re looking for a framework to practice this type of constructive feedback, I highly recommend this primer: https://lnkd.in/gnVKrdwJ This is where #RadicalCandor meets everyday #WorkplaceCulture. Have you spoken up recently? How did it land?

One thing that drives me crazy about workplace conversations is how quickly we label people “defensive.” Too often, what we call defensiveness is just someone explaining a level of difficulty and constraint that the other person never saw. A group of my colleagues recently published a great study to help us navigate these situation: When you ask people for “advice” instead of “feedback,” they give more concrete, actionable input. Shifting the focus to the future through advice makes comments more useful and allows the recipient to explain why a certain approach may or may not work without being called “defensive” because there is nothing to defend yet. Here’s a situation we’ve all been in: – A manager looks at a missed deadline and thinks, “You dropped the ball.” – An employee looks at the same project and thinks, “You have no idea how much work this was.” – BUT when the employee explains what got in the way, the manager hears excuses and calls them defensive, even though the employee is just sharing information the manager did not see. Feedback is a form of disagreement about performance, and two simple shifts can help both sides: (1) If you are a leader, start with questions: What did this involve? What got in the way? Where did I underestimate the difficulty? (2) If you are an employee, use inquiry and curiosity: reflect on what you heard, ask about expectations and impact, then offer information the other person didn’t have. For better performance, ask and give advice about the future, not give feedback on the past. Study by: Hayley Blunden, Ariella Kristal, Ashley Whillans, Jaewon Yoon, Hannah Burd, Georgina Bremner, Michael Yeomans. Read it here: https://lnkd.in/e6SefNev