Socialization in Onboarding

When I arrived at USPTO in 2018, I was greeted with something unforgettable: a welcome package, a personalized basket, a tour to meet every stakeholder, and even a team-wide pause for a warm “welcome party.” I had never felt so valued on day one. We took onboarding seriously. Every new hire had a “buddy” responsible for making sure these steps were covered before and during the first week: 1️⃣ Build a welcome basket using contributions from the team, our library, and donations. Bonus points for finding out the new employee’s interests and adding something personal. 2️⃣ Take the new employee on a tour to meet stakeholders, visit offices, and share lunch in the cafeteria to encourage quick socialization. 3️⃣ Coordinate a short, in-person welcoming party on the first day where everyone stopped to greet the newcomer. 4️⃣ Schedule longer introductory meetings during the first week with key stakeholders to build context and relationships. The impact went well beyond making people feel good. Research shows that personalized gestures such as welcome baskets increase trust and commitment. Structured socialization practices like tours and team welcomes reduce anxiety, build belonging, and accelerate role clarity. On top of that, buddy programs and early stakeholder meetings provide psychological safety and social capital. Furthermore, studies from Microsoft and Gartner found that employees with a buddy were more productive and more likely to stay, and other research has shown that early supportive interactions predict higher performance and long-term commitment. The results in our office spoke for themselves. We saw virtually zero turnover, had a waiting list of internal employees eager to join, and filled nearly every open position internally through promotions or cross-moves. The culture was so strong that even when I eventually accepted another opportunity, it took a significant offer and a month of persuasion to make me leave. To this day (and no disrespect to my other employers) it's one of those decisions I revisit often and say "what if." Making people feel truly welcomed is not fluff. It is a strategy that builds retention, engagement, and culture. So how is your organization welcoming its new employees? Let's here some great practices that we all can adapt. #EmployeeExperience #OnboardingMatters #CultureByDesign #RetentionStrategy #WorkplaceCulture #EmployeeEngagement

I had two seperate but equally enlightening conversations yesterday about onboarding… and how, intentional or not, it’s the first promise the org makes to a new employee. It got me thinking that one’s onboarding approach is unconsciously telling new hires: “This is who we are”, “this is what we value”, “this is how you’ll fit in and find your place”. If your approach focuses on efficiency, compliance, or it’s a systemless, figure it out as you go - that’s the culture you’ve communicated! Not good. The fix? Design this system, the first they’ll encounter, for human connection. What if onboarding began at acceptance, not day one? What if it included a welcome from a peer, not just HR? What if new hires heard real stories from real people, not just the mission statement, but what it feels like to live the mission statement? What if the first week included time and space to reflect, to connect, to ask real questions without performance pressure? What if the manager’s role wasn’t just to check in but to truly invite in? Asking each new hire, “what could we do better?” This isn’t really about adding more. It’s about designing better. -Less procedure, more presence. -Less presentation, more conversation, and more relationship building. Onboarding shouldn’t be a box to check. It’s the first cultural promise you make, and people remember who kept it. #HR #Onboarding #Connection

Most HR teams think their onboarding is solid. → Laptop ready. → Paperwork completed. → First day meet and greet? Check. But here is the truth we see behind the curtain: Most teams skip the parts that matter most for long-term success. Here are two steps most teams forget during onboarding and what to do instead. 1. 𝗖𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗰𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗴𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 Telling someone your values is easy. Showing them how the team 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 works is the magic. New hires do not struggle with the handbook. They struggle with the unwritten rules. Give them real language instead of vague gestures. For example, instead of asking… "Do you use Slack?" Try saying… "Our team lives in Slack during business hours. We expect same day responses for most messages and a quicker reply if it is from your manager or during core hours." Other examples to spell out clearly: • How often leaders drop in for updates • When cameras are expected on • How people give feedback • When it is okay to block focus time • Preferred communication style (short pings or detailed notes) And pair them with a culture buddy. Someone who can answer real questions like "Is it normal to send a calendar note before messaging the VP?" That saves so much social anxiety and avoids awkward first month missteps. 2. 𝗥𝗼𝗹𝗲 𝗰𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗲𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸𝗽𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘀 A job title is not direction. People want to know exactly how to succeed. → Get specific. → Paint the picture. Instead of saying… "You will lead onboarding." Try… "In your first 30 days, you will run onboarding for three new hires. Success looks like zero missed system access steps, plus a feedback survey score of 4.5 or higher." Then schedule a 30 day check in. Not to judge. To support. Ask questions like: "What has been clear so far?" "What has been confusing?" "Where do you need resources or examples?" And tell them one thing they are doing well. Everyone needs a confidence anchor early. Strong onboarding is not fancy. It is clear, human, and consistent. Which onboarding detail made the biggest difference for you in a new role? If this sparked ideas, share it with another HR pro building better onboarding. #OnboardingTips #HRLeadership #PeopleFirst ♻️ I appreciate 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 repost. 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗛𝗥 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀? Click the "𝗩𝗶𝗲𝘄 𝗺𝘆 𝗡𝗲𝘄𝘀𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿" link below my name for weekly tips to elevate your career!

Early exits are becoming increasingly common and not always because the candidate wasn’t committed. The truth is, the world of work has changed. Expectations have evolved faster than most organizations have adapted. But the good news is, there are practical ways to address it. Strengthen the onboarding experience. The first 45 days decide whether someone stays or leaves. A structured, thoughtful onboarding process sets the tone. Pair new hires with a buddy, set clear goals for the first 30–60–90 days, and make sure their early wins are acknowledged. Small gestures go a long way in making people feel they belong. Create real connection beyond job descriptions.  People don’t leave companies as quickly when they connect with the people they work with. Encourage managers to engage with new team members beyond tasks, a simple coffee chat, feedback loop, or early check-in can build trust faster than any policy ever will. Revisit how roles are positioned. Sometimes, what’s written in the JD doesn’t fully reflect the ground reality. Being upfront about challenges and learning curves helps attract the right kind of candidate, someone who joins with eyes open and stays prepared. Offer early career visibility. New hires want to know what’s next, not years later, but soon after they start. Even a simple discussion around learning paths or upcoming projects can build confidence that the organization invests in their growth. Keep communication flowing post-joining. The recruiter’s or HR’s relationship shouldn’t end once the offer letter is signed. A quick check-in 30 or 60 days after joining helps surface concerns early. Sometimes, what could have become a resignation can instead become a conversation. People leave jobs for many reasons but most of them are preventable with the right systems in place. When recruiters, HR teams, and managers work together on onboarding, connection, and clarity, retention stops being a challenge and starts becoming a culture. Because hiring doesn’t end when someone joins. It ends when they choose to stay. #EmployeeRetention #OnboardingSuccess

Many of us have recently returned from holidays. Some stayed in hotels or Airbnbs, while others had the privilege of staying with family or friends. As recipients of their hospitality—or as hosts ourselves—it’s hard not to notice the effort and thought that goes into making someone feel welcomed and comfortable in a home. This got me thinking: we spend so much time and energy ensuring our guests feel cared for at home, but do we bring the same care and attention to welcoming new members at work? Often, we focus on the logistical side of onboarding. While these are important, they’re only one part of the experience. What about the human side of onboarding? The part where someone new feels 𝘀𝗲𝗲𝗻, 𝘃𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗱, and 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗱? Here are 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 from hosting at home that we can apply to welcoming new colleagues: 𝟭. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝗪𝗮𝗿𝗺 𝗪𝗲𝗹𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 First impressions are crucial. Consider creating a personalised "welcome pack" that goes beyond the basics. Perhaps, gather handwritten welcome notes from each team member. This collective gesture shows that the entire team is excited about their arrival. Additionally, if from outside of Singapore, include a packet of tissues with a note to explain why—a nod to the local Singapore custom of using tissues to "chope" (reserve) seats at hawker centers in Singapore. 😅 This not only introduces them to local culture but also adds a touch of humor and warmth. 𝟮. 𝗔𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗡𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 Good hosts anticipate what their guests might need—even before they ask. The same applies at work. Does your new team member have all the tools, resources, and information they need? Have you assigned someone they can reach out to for help? Thoughtful preparation can ease their transition and prevent unnecessary frustration. 𝟯. 𝗣𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 When someone stays with you, you don’t just welcome them on the first day and then leave them to figure everything out. You check in periodically, ensuring they’re comfortable and adapting well. At work, onboarding shouldn’t stop after the first week. Make it a point to follow up regularly over the first few months. A simple check-in can go a long way in helping someone feel supported and valued. 𝗛𝗼𝘀𝗽𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝗘𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁 Welcoming new team members isn’t just the leader’s responsibility—it’s something all of us can contribute to. Whether it’s inviting them for lunch, answering their questions with patience, or simply being approachable, we all have a part to play in making them feel at home. Thoughtful hospitality leaves a lasting impression on guests. A warm and intentional onboarding experience helps new colleagues feel at ease, integrate faster, and contribute sooner. What have been POSITIVE and not-so-positive experiences you have had when joining a new team? What type of Welcome did you receive?

𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠: 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐇𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 (𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐎𝐧𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞) A recent study published in Frontiers in Organizational Psychology explored how newcomers learn during onboarding by looking at three key learning forms:  • 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 (structured training, onboarding plans)  • 𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 (peer conversations, job shadowing)  • 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠(goal-setting, reflection, proactive follow-ups) The findings reveal something powerful: Onboarding is most effective when organizations move beyond rigid training programs and create opportunities for self-directed, informal, and interactive learning. New hires who actively shape their onboarding—asking questions, seeking feedback, reflecting on progress—adjust faster, feel more connected, and stay longer. So, 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐳𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞?  • 𝐑𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 & 𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭: Poor onboarding is one of the top reasons for early turnover.  • 𝐅𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐩-𝐮𝐩: Structured and self-directed learning accelerates role clarity and confidence.  • 𝐂𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 & 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: Informal learning helps newcomers integrate socially and culturally, which is often overlooked in formal training. What can I/O Psychology and L&D practitioners do?  • Design onboarding that blends 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬(e.g., mentorship, peer learning, shared breaks).  • Incorporate 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐬 like reflection prompts, learning goals, and follow-up checklists.  • Map onboarding activities to 𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬—compliance, clarification, connection, and culture—so learning is intentional and complete.  • Use data to 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 with both formal and informal learning pathways, not just training completion rates. Onboarding should be a co-created learning experience, not just a process to get through. When we empower new hires as active participants in their learning journey, everyone wins—newcomers, teams, and the entire organization. #WorkplaceEngineer #IOPsychology #LearningThatSticks #TrainingAndDevelopment #Onboarding #EmployeeExperience #LeadershipDevelopment

I sent laptops to 7 remote hires. 5 quit within 90 days. Costly mistake.  Brutal lesson. I thought I was onboarding them. They felt abandoned. And the data proves I wasn’t alone: 🚫 63% of remote employees say onboarding was inadequate. 🚫 60% feel lost and disoriented after their first week. 🚫 Remote hires take 3-6 months longer to reach full productivity. A laptop in a box isn’t onboarding.  It’s a fast track to disengagement. So I rebuilt our process—and retention jumped 82%. Here’s exactly what worked: 🔥 The Buddy System ✔ Assign a mentor (daily check-ins for the first 2 weeks) ✔ Encourage “silly” questions—zero judgment ✔ Make support feel human, not bureaucratic 🔥 Connection Before Content ✔ Virtual coffee chats before training starts ✔ Executive welcome video on Day 1 ✔ Remote-friendly team social event in Week 1 🔥 Digestible Learning ✔ 90-minute training modules (no info overload!) ✔ Spread onboarding across 3 weeks, not 3 days ✔ Live discussions > passive video watching 🔥 Tech Readiness ✔ IT setup completed before Day 1 ✔ Test systems with the hire the day before ✔ Provide a digital “emergency contact” for tech issues 🔥 Culture Immersion ✔ Virtual office tour with real team stories ✔ Inside-joke dictionary (every company has one!) ✔ Daily connections between work tasks & company mission 🔥 Strategic Check-ins ✔ Week 1: "What surprised you?" ✔ Month 1: "Where do you need more clarity?" ✔ Quarter 1: "How can we better support your growth?” 🔥 Early Wins = Early Buy-In ✔ Assign a small, meaningful project in Week 1 ✔ Recognize their success publicly ✔ Show them how their work makes an impact Remote onboarding isn’t about dumping information. It’s about building confidence, connection, and commitment. Do this right, and your new hires won’t just stay. They’ll thrive. P.S. What’s one thing you wish you had in your first remote onboarding? ♻️ Repost this to help HR teams fix onboarding before it costs them top talent.

When onboarding new people at Facebook (Meta), I always focused them on three things: People, People, People. It meant meeting with a diverse, targeted set of relevant people. Gaining context. Understanding others' strengths and priorities. Building trusting relationships. The reason was simple: you can't accomplish anything meaningful alone. Each initiative required assembling the right "herd" - different people with different strengths for each challenge. But you can only easily tap people you already know and trust — and who trust you. Facebook's informal organization mattered far more than org charts and many of the best ideas came bottoms-up. Building stakeholder support meant understanding who needed to be involved, what they cared about, and why collaborating made sense. Without pre-built relationships — whether internal or external — you were starting from scratch every time. I apply this same principle when helping founders now. Many founders wait to build partnerships until they need something specific. They treat networking as transactional and as a distraction, only reaching out with a near-term procurement opportunity or funding need. That's backwards — partnerships are foundational infrastructure. The corporate partners who will ultimately determine whether your technology scales should be relationships you're building now, before anyone enters negotiation mode. At Gigascale Capital, we help portfolio companies build their herds early. Connect with potential buyers during “Go-to-Discovery”, not just GTM. Engage and learn from ecosystem partners who can validate assumptions while you still have flexibility to adjust. Build trust with industry players before pitching specific collaborations. Different commercialization stages need different partner constellations. The herd for validating market assumptions differs from the herd for first deployment. But all of it requires relationships built on trust and mutual understanding. The onboarding mindset never stops. Continue building relationships. Maintain context. Expand your network. Build your foundational infrastructure. The strength of your herd determines what's possible.

My two cents… I had an enablement colleague ask me a question about onboarding and how it’s changed, how we tailor it, what reps should know and when, how much selling vs. product vs. industry training should be done, and when they should start selling. My peers in the business know this line of questioning well. In my opinion, onboarding programs need to shift away from focusing on content and move toward sequence and intent. Stop prioritizing information completeness and instead design around progressive capability. New hires should start doing real things earlier. Do small things first, then bigger ones. The training doesn’t disappear; it gets reorganized around the doing rather than the knowing. Here’s a reframe that changes how I think about onboarding entirely: new hires should be selling from day one. What they’re selling evolves. Day 1–10 – Selling themselves internally. Learning the business, earning trust, building relationships. Understanding how the organization actually operates and not just what the org chart says. (And ideally not asking where the coffee machine is for the fifth time.) Day 10–30 – Selling curiosity externally. Joining calls, asking smart questions, observing experienced reps navigate conversations. Not pitching like a caffeinated product brochure. Listening. Reading the room. Developing instincts. Day 30–60 – Selling pieces of the deal. Running discovery. Owning the recap. Setting next steps. Still supervised, still supported. Think of it as a learner’s permit where you have real driving in controlled conditions. Day 60–90 – Selling full-cycle. Pipeline, deals, forecasts; basically the whole beautiful, complicated mess. Accountable for outcomes, supported by the system, coached by the manager. Actually in the game. Designed this way, onboarding isn’t a waiting room before the job starts. It is the job, at progressively increasing altitudes. The new hire is never a spectator. They’re always a participant. The only question is what role they’re playing this week.

As the new school year begins, we pour energy into welcoming students and families. But what about new employees? Too often, we assume that as professionals, they’ll “just get it.” Yet research shows the number one reason people choose a school isn’t salary, it’s community. You sold the story of this school during the recruitment phase. Now, how will you carry that forward into intentional onboarding? A few ideas: Pre‑arrival touchpoint: Send a welcome packet (handbook, schedules, technology access info) and a short video introducing leadership or team members. Studies show early connection fosters engagement and confidence. Structured orientation with culture and clarity: Outline school vision, values, routines, safety protocols, and performance expectations in a paced, clear format. Avoid info overload—make time to reflect & connect. Ongoing check‑ins: Schedule weekly check‑ins for the first 90 days, then monthly through the year. Provide time to ask questions, reflect on successes & challenges, and revisit vision and values. Mentorship and peer observation: Match new hires with supportive colleagues, and build in classroom observations or job‑shadowing. Relationship‑driven onboarding supports belonging and builds confidence fast. Community building opportunities: Host social gatherings, team rituals, book clubs, or reflection circles. Belonging grows when people show up as themselves and have the chance to stay connected across the school year. Onboarding isn’t just a checklist—it’s an invitation to belong. And when people feel seen, supported, and connected, they stay and thrive. Looking for a great piece on the teacher experience, check out two recent National Association of Independent Schools articles. "Listening Lessons" by Jessica F. of The Pingry School https://lnkd.in/gv_By3wr and "The First Last Step" by Kathryn Outlaw of Girls Preparatory School https://lnkd.in/gVF3NwMJ #teachers #education #professionalsupport #independentschools #onboarding