Cultivating a Feedback Culture in Agile Leadership

I regularly work with leadership teams to help them be more effective with their team dynamics and/or culture. One topic that comes up frequently? Nearly every team I work with wants to be great at giving and receiving feedback. Here’s what I notice about teams that have great feedback cultures: When something goes wrong, they don’t have side conversations. Many times, we get in the habit of venting to one of our peers about something challenging going on within the team. Why is this harmful to team dynamics? When we don’t openly talk about challenges with the whole team, it creates invisible barriers for others on the team. If we don’t tell someone we’re frustrated about something, we don’t give them the opportunity to make a needed change. We vent to a peer, feel slightly better, then let it go. We don’t share it, so nothing changes. Inevitably, the pattern returns and we get frustrated again. We go back to venting. We seemingly let it go. But it builds our frustrations and deteriorates trust. Rinse and repeat this vicious cycle. Now that trust is low, we have a hard time opening any feedback. We build walls and the team starts to operate with less efficiency, transparency, and information. So how do we break this cycle? The healthiest and most effective teams have built-in places for open feedback. They regularly talk about challenges. They know that talking about challenges, even when it’s hard, builds trust in the long run instead of breaking it. Instead of going to people within the team to vent, they openly talk about the challenges with the whole team. They hold each other accountable to not having side conversations or meetings-after-the-meeting. Here are three ways to build in regular, safe spaces for feedback into your team operations: 1️⃣ Build in questions to your 1-on-1s to ask things like: “What is one thing I could be doing differently to support you right now?” 2️⃣ Put retro conversations into your team meetings. Regularly ask the team - “What should we be starting, stopping, or continuing right now?” (Google retroactive meeting templates to get more ideas on questions you can ask!) 3️⃣ Instead of focusing on how to GIVE feedback to people as a leader, focus on how you RECEIVE feedback. Do a leadership skill gap analysis. Write down: When someone shares something challenging with you, how do you currently react to feedback? Then write down: How do you want to react when someone gives you feedback? Where’s the gap and what’s one step you could take toward closing that gap? What do you think? What do you think the best teams do to create great feedback cultures?

𝗛𝗥: 𝗔 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀! As HR leaders, we have the power to transform workplaces by fostering open dialogue, nurturing talent, and creating an environment where people truly thrive. 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗲 𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲! Recently, in a high-energy HR strategy meet, we explored a game-changing concept—𝗥𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗖𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗼𝗿—the powerful balance of giving direct, honest feedback while genuinely caring. The conversations were raw, insightful, and deeply thought-provoking. The discussion reinforced a fundamental fact that honest conversations, when done right, fuel trust, engagement, and performance. Here are a few ways you can practice radical candor in your leadership style: 1️⃣ 𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗽𝘁 & 𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 Example: Instead of waiting for a monthly/quarterly review, say: "Hey, I noticed in today's meeting that your presentation was great, but your conclusion lacked clarity. Try summarizing key takeaways in 3/4 bullets next time—it’ll make your point clearer!" 📌 Tip: Feedback is most effective when it is instant, so it stays relevant and actionable. 2️⃣ 𝗕𝗲 𝗗𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗖𝗮𝗿𝗲 Example: If an employee misses deadlines, instead of avoiding the conversation, say, "I see you've been struggling lately. I know you’re capable, so let’s discuss what’s blocking you. How can I support you in managing priorities better?" 📌 Tip: Difficult or tough conversations become easier when people know your feedback comes from a place of care, not criticism. 3️⃣ 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗮 𝗖𝘂𝗹𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗢𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗗𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘂𝗲 Example: Invite feedback on your leadership: "I want to ensure I’m supporting the team effectively. What’s one thing I could do better to help you succeed?" or "What can I do to set you up for success?" 📌 Tip: When leaders model openness to feedback, employees are encouraged to do the same, creating a culture of trust. Radical candor isn’t about being harsh or overly soft—it’s about finding the right balance to build trust, drive performance, and create a thriving workplace. Don't be nice; be kind! #Humanresources #Leadership #RadicalCandour How do you incorporate radical candor in your leadership style?

Most leaders don’t struggle to give feedback because they lack good intentions, they struggle because they lack the right frameworks. We say things like: 🗣 “This wasn’t good enough.” 🗣 “You need to speak up more.” 🗣 “That project could’ve been tighter.” But vague feedback isn’t helpful, it’s confusing. And often, it demoralizes more than it motivates. That’s why I love this visual from Rachel Turner (VC Talent Lab). It lays out four highly actionable, research-backed frameworks for giving better feedback: → The 3 Ps Model: Praise → Problem → Potential. Start by recognizing what worked. Then gently raise what didn’t. End with a suggestion for how things could improve. → The SBI Model: Situation → Behavior → Impact. This strips out judgment and makes feedback objective. Instead of “You’re too aggressive in meetings,” it becomes: “In yesterday’s meeting (Situation), you spoke over colleagues multiple times (Behavior), which made some feel unable to share (Impact).” → Harvard’s HEAR Framework: A powerful structure for disagreement. Hedge claims. Emphasize agreement. Acknowledge their point. Reframe to solutions. → General Feedback Tips: – Be timely. – Be specific. – Focus on behavior, not identity. – Reinforce the positive (and remember the 5:1 rule). Here’s what I tell senior FMCG leaders all the time: Good feedback builds performance. Great feedback builds culture. The best feedback builds trust, and that’s what retains your best people. So next time you hesitate before giving hard feedback? Remember this: → You’re not there to criticize. → You’re there to build capacity. Save this as your cheat sheet. Share it with your teams. Let’s make feedback a tool for growth, not fear. #Leadership #FMCG #TalentDevelopment #PerformanceCulture #FeedbackMatters #ExecutiveDevelop

I’ve coached leaders in Riyadh, Dubai, Nigeria, Singapore, and Sydney. 🌍 Different languages. Different customs. 💬 One identical fear: “If I tell them the truth, they’ll see me differently.” But here’s the paradox: When you avoid the truth, they do see you differently, just not how you hope. Across cultures, leaders want to: - Maintain respect and credibility - Avoid unnecessary conflict - Keep team relationships strong The ones who succeed: Treat feedback like a joint problem-solving session, not a personal attack. Here’s my 5-step framework for culturally intelligent feedback: 1. Set context – Share why the conversation matters. 2. Seek their view first – Build ownership before you advise. 3. State the observation – Specific, behaviour-based, no labels. 4. Co-create next steps – Bridge differences with joint solutions. 5. Follow up – Show that you care about progress, not just the problem. From the majlis to the boardroom, one thing is clear: Feedback, given well, doesn’t just preserve relationships; it strengthens them. You’re more ready than you think. 🥇 #Coach #Coaching #Leader #Leadership #Growth #Feedback

Did you know that 65% of employees say they want more feedback, but only 30% receive it regularly? No wonder so many teams feel stuck and unaligned. A few weeks ago, during a coaching conversation with my coachee, she said something that really made me pause: "I’ve never received feedback or even acknowledgment, so I don’t know if I’m doing great or falling short." She wasn’t upset—just confused. And it hit me: This isn’t just her experience. It happens to so many leaders and teams. This conversation reminded me of a deeper issue: feedback in many organizations feels like a formality—something you do during reviews or “feedback season.” But here’s the thing: when feedback becomes a box to check, it reflects the culture. In a culture like that, feedback feels like judgment, not growth. Why Feedback Feels Hard Let’s be honest: feedback is uncomfortable. People avoid it, not because they don’t care, but because: ⇢ They’re not sure how to say it. ⇢ They worry it’ll hurt feelings. ⇢ They assume no news is good news. But feedback doesn’t have to be a big, stressful moment. It can—and should—be part of everyday conversations. When feedback isn’t natural, it leads to: ⇢ Confusion about expectations. ⇢ Missed chances to grow. ⇢ Teams and leaders feeling stuck. But in a culture where feedback flows freely, it feels different. Feedback becomes: ⇢ A way to stay aligned. ⇢ A tool for building trust. ⇢ A shared responsibility to grow together. That’s the kind of culture where people thrive. If you’re a leader, here’s how you can shift the mindset: ⇢ Make It a Conversation, Not an Event Don’t save feedback for reviews. A quick “You did great on X” or “Let’s tweak Y” is enough to keep things moving. ⇢ Ask for Feedback First Start with your team: “What’s one thing I can do better?” It shows you’re open and creates a safe space for them to do the same. ⇢ Set Expectations Early When everyone knows what success looks like, feedback feels clear—not like guesswork. ⇢ Build Trust People need to feel safe to give and receive feedback. Without trust, it just doesn’t work. Last year, when I was at a crossroads in my career, I had a conversation with Nathan SV that changed the way I look at things. He helped me realize that career growth isn’t just about me—it’s about the impact I can have on the organization I work for. That’s the power of honest, meaningful feedback. Thank you, Thalaiva! Over to You ⇢ When was the last time you gave someone honest feedback? ⇢ When was the last time you asked for it? Feedback isn’t about pointing out what’s wrong. It’s about aligning for what’s next. Let’s make feedback a natural part of work—not something we fear, but something we embrace. #Leadership #FeedbackCulture #GrowthMindset #OrganizationalCulture #CareerGrowth #WorkplaceCulture

The Problem with “Nice” Cultures. A lot of leaders think a “nice” culture means a healthy one. But most “nice” cultures are just conflict-avoidant ones with a fresh coat of paint. And that’s a problem. Here’s what happens in companies with a “nice” culture: - People agree in meetings… but disagree behind closed doors. - Under-performers stick around because no one wants to have the tough conversation. - Important feedback is sugarcoated until it’s meaningless. - The best people leave because they don’t see a culture of high performance. Nice cultures FEEL good in the moment. But they slowly kill accountability, innovation, and results. The Fix? Build a Candid Culture. A high-performing team isn’t one where people are “nice.” It’s one where people are honest, direct, and constructive. Here’s a 4-part framework to make the shift: 1. Set the expectation that candour is a core value. Being honest isn’t optional, it’s how we improve. Leaders need to set the tone by giving AND receiving feedback openly. 2. Teach teams how to have difficult conversations. “Radical candour” doesn’t mean being rude, it means balancing care with directness. Role-play feedback conversations. Give frameworks. Lead by example. 3. Reward honesty, not just harmony. When someone gives tough feedback, recognise and reward it, especially when it’s directed at leadership. Psychological safety isn’t about avoiding conflict. It’s about making people feel safe TO challenge ideas. 4. Make feedback frequent and expected. If feedback only happens in annual reviews, it’s already too late. Build a culture where feedback is a habit, not an event. Great teams don’t avoid conflict. They get better at handling it. What do you think? Would you rather work in a “nice” culture or a candid one?

“We have a feedback culture.”   That’s what the slide says in your onboarding deck.  But here’s what the team actually feels: → “If I speak up, I’ll be labeled ‘difficult.’” → “If I share the real issue, I’ll lose trust.” → “If I name what’s broken, I’ll be the problem.” That’s not feedback. That’s fear. And fear doesn’t build trust. It builds silence. Here’s how to start changing that 👇 1️⃣ Ask questions they’re scared to answer. Try: “What’s one thing we’re not talking about that we should be?” 2️⃣ Respond to feedback like it’s a gift especially when it stings. If you defend, they won’t bring it again. 3️⃣ Give feedback in real time, not once a year. Waiting for performance reviews = waiting too long. 4️⃣ Model emotional regulation. Your tone and energy determine if the room opens up or shuts down. 5️⃣ Normalize disagreement. If your team always agrees with you, they probably don’t feel safe enough to be honest. 6️⃣ Show them how to speak up then protect them when they do. Psychological safety isn’t just permission. It’s protection. 7️⃣ Do your own work. Your self-awareness sets the ceiling for theirs. No inner work = no outer trust. You don’t earn trust through words. You earn it through nervous systems. Because if people can’t breathe around you, they won’t be honest with you. Want to lead a team where truth feels safe? Start with how you listen. - ♻️ Repost to help leaders prioritize psychological safety 🔔 Follow me Julia Laszlo for radically honest leadership talk

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸, 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴—𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴. That doesn't sound good, does it? We talk about “developing people,” but that doesn’t happen without truth. And too often, feedback becomes watered down to protect comfort instead of promote growth. I’ve seen it—and done it myself. You soften the words. You focus on the positives. You skip the hard truth because you don’t want to “hurt morale.” But here’s the reality: When you avoid giving real feedback, you aren’t protecting them. You’re robbing them of the chance to improve. If your employee left tomorrow and found out they’d been missing the mark for months—how would you feel? You knew. You saw it. But you didn’t say it. That’s not kindness. That’s negligence dressed up as empathy. Here’s how to give feedback that builds trust and results 👇   1️⃣ Be direct, not harsh. Clarity is kindness. Don’t dress up the message so much they can’t find it. 2️⃣ Anchor it to behavior, not character. “Your follow-through on client calls dropped last week” is actionable. “You’re unreliable” is not. 3️⃣ Explain the “why.” People deserve to know how their behavior affects outcomes, team morale, or customer impact. Context drives ownership. 4️⃣ Invite reflection. Ask: “How do you think that went?” You’ll be surprised how often they already know—and want to fix it. 5️⃣ End with belief. They need to leave knowing you believe in their ability to improve. Accountability without belief feels like punishment.   The best leaders don’t avoid discomfort—they leverage it for growth. If you wouldn’t want your own boss sugarcoating the truth, don’t do it to your people. They can’t grow from what they don’t know.   💬 Question for you: What’s one piece of feedback you wish someone had told you earlier in your career? #LeadershipDevelopment #FeedbackCulture #Coaching #Communication #LeadingTheFront 🔔   Want more like this in your feed? ➡️Engage (like/comment/repost) ➡️Go to Matt Antonucci and click/tap the (🔔) 🔔 Follow for actionable leadership lessons that build better teams.

Silence in the workplace doesn’t mean things are fine. It often means people don’t feel safe enough to speak. When the room goes quiet, leaders often take it as a sign of alignment. But more often, it’s a sign of fear. Fear of judgment. Fear of being seen as negative. Fear that speaking up leads nowhere. And here’s the danger: Silence doesn’t prevent conflict. It buries it, until it resurfaces as burnout, disengagement, or turnover. The data is clear. Psychological safety is the #1 predictor of high-performing teams (Google). Teams that feel safe speaking up are more innovative, more agile, and less likely to lose top talent. So how do you create a culture where silence doesn’t take root? Here are 3 evidence-based strategies you can implement immediately: 1. Signal safety through vulnerability When a leader says, “Here’s something I’m struggling with, and I’d love your input,” you don’t lose authority. You build relational trust. This activates the positive emotion + relatedness components of the PERMA model, creating a space where others feel permission to contribute authentically. 2. Make feedback a shared responsibility Create rituals like: “What should I start, stop, or continue as a leader?” “What’s one assumption we’re not questioning hard enough this quarter?” This isn’t a one-time ask. It’s a cultural habit. Feedback should be expected, not exceptional. 3. Recognise the voice, not just the result Reward the act of speaking up, especially when it’s constructive dissent. People need to see that challenging the status quo doesn’t cost them, it grows them. This leverages Self-Determination Theory: when people feel autonomy, competence, and belonging, they’re more engaged and resilient under pressure. Silence is easy. But progress is noisy. And culture is what survives in the spaces where power isn’t present.

In high-performing cultures, feedback is actively sought, not just passively accepted.   One of the most powerful shifts that can take place in your teams is when people begin to ask for input. Not just from their managers, but from peers, partners, and collaborators. When feedback-seeking becomes a shared norm, it signals something deeper: a culture that values learning more than perfection.   This mindset shift does more than improve performance. It models humility, reduces the stigma around mistakes, and creates space for vulnerability – a prerequisite for innovation.   This rich culture shift takes intention and commitment. It requires that everyone embrace iteration and a “yes, and” approach to brainstorming. It means building capability, rewarding the desired behavior, and embedding it into how work gets done.   Within my own teams, we’ve seen how feedback-seeking can unlock unexpected breakthroughs. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s always worth it.   Learn more about creating a culture that truly values feedback: https://lnkd.in/dMUyV9q3   What’s one way your team encourages feedback as a path to growth?